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BrokenPieces · Posted: Tue Feb 13, 2007 9:25 pm Post subject: when do you think its right

so when do you think its okay to have sex???

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Jasta · Posted: Tue Feb 20, 2007 6:51 am Post subject:

Are we talking young cause I first has sex when I was 14, or in terms of a relationship, cause as long as you use a condom whenever you want and think you are ready.
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BrokenPieces · Posted: Tue Feb 20, 2007 9:19 pm Post subject:

well relationship wise

i am so lost on when most people think its right before you get together a month afterwards etc

or is it when you talk about it and feel ready?
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smurf · Posted: Tue Feb 20, 2007 9:56 pm Post subject:

I think it's whenever you are both ready.
Me and my ex slept together far too quickly I think, but at the time it felt right x
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Ester · Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 2:51 am Post subject:

I agree with Smurf. When you're both ready, then it's ok Smile

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BrokenPieces · Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 10:27 am Post subject:

so when both feels ready sounds good...

but dioes age have a factor with it either??
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smurf · Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 12:50 pm Post subject:

AS long as you are both adults no I don't think so *hug*
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BrokenPieces · Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 9:15 pm Post subject:

*hug* it seems like its a good idea too...

who knows... its such a confusing topic Confused

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razzie · Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 5:02 am Post subject:

my only answer: when you're certain he'd be a good dad - in the off chance that there is a baby - especially if you are not in favour of an abortion.
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debs · Special Site Friend Joined: 01 Mar 2007 Posts: 48

I did it the old fashioned way and got to know him and then waited till we were married, that is what we wanted and it suited us.

But......

It depends on the couple, if they are mature enough to talk it through and be able to undderstand each other then that is fine for them, but they also need to know if one becomes uncomfortable then they need to respect that.