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debs
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PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 1:36 pm    Post subject: sex Reply with quote

When rape happens is it ever possible to get a sex life back with your partner or do u think it will always be too much to handle?


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BrokenPieces
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 8:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i think that it will be hard for awhile, and its something you have to work to get back and such....

i know after i was raped, that it was hard, and well now i am fine..

it takes time to get back to where you were from before
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 09, 2007 6:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

it is hard for a while to trust any one that way me and my husband talk about what we are doing before we have sex he knows what triggers and what not to do during sex

it took me a long long time to trust my husband even though he has never done anything wrong to me

i was abused from a very young age then i was raped as a teen and adult so it has taken me years to even be with some one who i have trust 100 % and i have marryed him

just take your time you will know when you are ready and your partner / husband should respect that


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 09, 2007 2:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

serenity wrote:
it is hard for a while to trust any one that way me and my husband talk about what we are doing before we have sex he knows what triggers and what not to do during sex

it took me a long long time to trust my husband even though he has never done anything wrong to me

i was abused from a very young age then i was raped as a teen and adult so it has taken me years to even be with some one who i have trust 100 % and i have marryed him

just take your time you will know when you are ready and your partner / husband should respect that


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I'm glad you found some peace in her life...

When someone is rape, they must feel like every men and everyone is after them.. Many women need supporters who would help them along the way
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 7:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

and i agree with that... with all the answers...



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