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BrokenPieces · Posted: Tue Feb 13, 2007 2:07 am Post subject: When he wont take no anymore

i was doing volunteer work this weekend, and this guy i try and stay away from was there, i feel so upset with him because he wont take no for an ansswer...

i dont know how to get him to stop, he has in the past tried things with me, and i dont like him that way. when i got to where i do the volunteering at, he was over me and stuff, and grabbing my ass even after i said no...

the teacher of the event pulled him aside and told him to stop.

I hate feeling like he can take this type of control over me... its not fair, and i feel helpless because saying no isnt enough
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mp · Site Administrator Joined: 11 Feb 2007 Posts: 8

I'm sorry...

I think you should slap him in public or something...to make him feel embarrassed for what he is doing. But it would anger him a lot, which is bad Sad

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i'm sorry

BrokenPieces · Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 1:39 pm Post subject:

dont be sorry...

i havent seen him since, and well i told the guy i am seeing, and he said, he would hurt him if he did that with him around Smile

so i am feeling much better about it!!
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Jasta · Posted: Sun Feb 25, 2007 5:48 am Post subject:

That is a terrible solution!, Violence never solves anything, I can't stress that enough. so the guy you are seeing hurts this guy for grabbing you ass right, Then Ass-grabbed gets charges pressed against him and your guy is in jail, what you need to do is file against Ass-grabbing guy if he tries it again, which will result in a restraining order keeping him away for good and no one you like goes to jail.
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BrokenPieces · Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 12:06 am Post subject:

thanks hun!!!!
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CandyGirl · Newborn Joined: 03 Mar 2007 Posts: 17

I sorry to hear that Broke, In a case like this you have to warn a people.... Next time this happen just go to the police so you can have it on record. And its good that someone knows that he is doing this, that is backup information when needed...

This is why women ended up in a bad relationship, when men like that come too hard, women think it cute and sexy and really its a BIG warning sign of how the person acts in his everyday life...

I really happy that you showed that person that you have respect for yourself..
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BrokenPieces · Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 3:30 pm Post subject:

the respect came from knowing i had someone who liked me, and wanted me all for himself... hes great!!!

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